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Mating in Captivity
Original Title：Mating in Captivity
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Mating in Captivity
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愛需要靠近，慾望需要距離：長期關係要保持激情，關鍵不是消除兩人之間的空間，而是在安全感之中保留一點神祕、自主與想像。
Reading Progress
80%
Who is this book for?
- 感情穩定、卻覺得激情慢慢消失的伴侶
- 以為「越親密，性就會越好」卻發現不是這樣的人
- 成為父母後，很難再把彼此當成戀人的夫妻
- 對自己的性幻想感到不安或羞愧的人
Who is the author?
- 埃絲特・沛瑞爾 (Esther Perel)，比利時出生、在紐約執業的伴侶與家族治療師，能說多種語言，接觸過不同文化背景的伴侶
- 本書 2006 年出版，被譯成多種語言；簡體中文版書名《親密陷阱》
- 她的 TED 演講〈長期關係中慾望的祕密〉觀看次數極高，並主持 Podcast《Where Should We Begin?》
- 網路聲量：Goodreads 4.17 分（約 5.2 萬人評分）
Other BooksThe State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity（2017，繁中版《第三者的誕生》）
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This world
The Sea of Books has 16 real islands, one for each subject. Every building on an island is a book.
What you can do now
- Tap an island on the chart to go ashore
- Tap a building to read the notes on that book
- Meet Shang in the Storyteller's Cabin
Coming soon
- Chapter 2: register as a voyager, sail your ship, collect building badges, send message bottles
- Chapter 3: shells, the harbor market, clearing the fog, rankings
- Chapter 4: private chats with other voyagers
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